Sex management
Like everything else sex also needs good management. With good management, it will fill your life with happiness but if good management is not there, it will lead to frustration, addiction and overall unhappiness.
The following factors can help you in having good sex management:
- Right proportion – How much sex. Every individual has different need. And one must see need of the partner as well. It should be mutual. Also one must see the right proportion if it fits well in life with respect to work, socialization, exercise and time spent on other activities of life. If your mind and life revolves around sex then for sure it will result in disaster.
- Right time – Timing is important. You are in mood, fine but you need to see appropriateness of time as well. Things become good or ugly due to good or bad timing.
- Right place – See the appropriateness of place. Will it give you the privacy? Will it leave the tell tale marks? Sex on terrace, Sex in train, Sex in garden, Sex in office may look exciting to you but it only displays your immaturity. Your own bedroom is the best place. And when in a hotel, be sure of ‘No Camera’.
- Right person – Sex is best when it is on the foundation of a relationship of love. Paid sex, forced sex, one night stand, casual sex and similar is a sure way to create disorder of proportion and frustration.
- Right way – Right from the beginning avoid the path of sexual perversity like voyeurism, exhibitionism, sadism, masochism, pedophilia, group sex etc. Once you go into these, way out is not easy.
- Right balance – Understand the difference between mental and physical sexual appetite. Mental sexual appetite can be enormous and can be increased to any level by constantly dwelling on sex but your body has limitation. People then use artificial means like pills to match mental appetite but since that is not natural, it fails ultimately. Result is sexual weakness and frustration. Body and mind harmony is very crucial for a good sex life.
