Sex Etiquettes
In this you can learn about Sex Etiquettes. It will help you to become sexually decent and graceful. And remember, etiquettes do not kill spontaneity. Sex is more a mind game than body game.
This includes:
- Do’s and don’ts of sex
- Sex habits
Read and understand to incorporate following in your sexual behavior.
- Discuss and plan – Do not think that every sex must be spontaneous. It should be discussed. This initiative is also an art. Judge the mood, the appropriateness, the timing and if fine throw a teaser. It can be as subtle as eye contact and smile. You have full right to refuse if you are not in mood but do it politely.
- Place – See the suitability of place. Will you get the privacy? Is the place ok for your partner? Make sure that you do not make it public show especially in this age when every phone has a camera.
- Hygiene – Commonest error especially by males is lack of care about hygiene. Dirty clothes, bad mouth and body odor, un-groomed appearance is sure to put off your partner. Even after the act, take care of cleanliness. Do not leave it for your partner to cleanup.
- Communication – Communication has a key role. It can enhance the pleasure or kill it. Avoid out of context talk. Avoid negative talk. Show respect to your partner even if you have to disagree, refuse or show discomfort. Use of humor is good but should not be sarcastic or to put down the other person. Do not talk about your other sexual encounters or throw negative comments to your partner.
- Attention – Keep your attention on your partner. It would be insulting if you let your mind go elsewhere. It must be conveyed that your partner is important. Keep your phone away. Similarly watching TV is not ok if it is not mutual and compliments the activity.
- Before sex – Make sure you are comfortable yourself and make your partner comfortable. Make necessary arrangements. In case you are with some new ideas, discuss beforehand. Do not jump on to your partner. Let the mood develop.
- During sex – Be graceful. You are not in a war. Do not rush or behave like Tarzan. The speed, depth and intensity of sex may vary person to person and other factors. Even then never forget it is all about sharing pleasure and happiness. Do not do anything which is not acceptable to your partner. Your mind should be alert to read the signals. Stop a particular activity and change if you see any discomfort. Understand the difference between screams of pleasure and pain. Never force hand-job or oral sex. Do not try to overdo just to prove your mastery. Support your partner. Seek willingness for use of sex toys if you like them but do not reuse them.
- After sex – Treat your partner as human being. Avoid ‘I am done’ syndrome where the moment you feel satisfied may be after orgasm, you lose interest. Even in case of mutual satisfaction, make sure you are graceful and do not jump towards your phone or TV. Take care of cleanliness. Do not throw used tissue or condoms in a manner they make publicity.
- And beyond – Sex is a private affair. Do not boast about it among others. Never use this to score a point. Making a recording and sharing is a strict no.