Humor for Better Sex
Humor is one trait which is desirable by both men and women. It makes one look intelligent attractive, playful and some who know how to enjoy. This is what can make sex a real fun.
According to research, humor ranks as one of the favorite when men and women are asked what they look for in a date.
What can humor do?
- Displays strength
Humor displays strength of personality. Ability to laugh over own deficiencies is considered as one of the strongest personality trait. A person with humor looks mature, self assured and in command of situation. But a negative humor like making fun of others shows inferiority.
- Creates bond
Humor is a great starter. It can help in creating instant bond. Research proves that funny people gain quick acceptance. People seek company of people who can make them laugh.
- Initiative
If used sensitively and intelligently, humor can play a good role in taking initiative. This is true for both initiating a relationship and initiating sexual encounter. Sexing the humor is an art that can be used as a teaser. It sets the process and communication in right direction.
- Releases stress
Humor releases stress. It can take away stress of life and revitalize to create good mood for enjoyable sex. It can also eliminate stress between partners and iron out differences.
- Reduces impact of negative
No human being is perfect be it you or your partner. There can be something in body, in habits, in mindset or other that can be little negative or put off. One can use humor cleverly to reduce impact of such negatives. Even during sex if some thing in your partner or some act is spoiling the moment, use humor to reduce its effect.
- Generates playfulness
Sex itself is a great play. Humor can enhance the playfulness. Humoring the sex is an asset that can create the best of the sex moments in the game of sex.
- Creativity
One of the complaint people make about sex that it has turned monotonous. Humor can help in creating newness, something fresh and enjoyable.
- Its naughty
Humor is naughty and so it can make sex naughty. This helps in creating more interest. Some people crave for naughty sex.
Be careful.
Remember to be careful with humor. Negative humor can put off your partner. Humor is an art; it requires novelty, originality, discretion and sensitivity to be effective. And you must know when to put humor in and when not. Honor the sensitive moments and emotions. Humor should not show you as someone frivolous, casual or insensitive.
