Counseling for Love
Counseling for Love
Love is the most beautiful thing of life. We all agree that one can live without money but not without love. The very basis of every relationship is love. No wonder we all eagerly wait for love of our life and wish to cherish the moments we spend together. But why then we face problems and reach a state where one feel as if love is dead or atleast in deep coma.
Love itself is a therapy. It has capacity to heal and do wonders. On the other hand if love goes sour, it can damage deep and destroy our entire existence. Such is the power of love. A little bit of carefulness and some good love counseling can help us in having the spark again.
Some common issues that need our attention for great love are:
- Attention
- Care
- Commitment
- Communication
- Compatibility
- Expectations
- Fidelity
- Identity
- Money
- Priorities
- Respect
- Responsibility
- Sex
- Space
- Spontaneity
- Thoughtfulness
- Time
- Trust
- Understanding
- Value system
There can be others. These aspects are not in order of priority as every person and every couple will have different priorities. The chemistry of love will depend on how partners manage interplay of these aspects mutually. Remember sub conscious mind play a big role in this and a lot happens with no control. This is where love counseling and love therapy can help us.
Love therapist will generate a safe platform on which all these aspects can be assessed and difficulties resolved by one or both partners. The therapy in itself will become a great learning and loving experience. One gets the opportunity to resolve past, redo present and replan a loving future.
The most important gain of love therapy is how one regains a loving self, an ability to love and receive love without prejudice, preconditions and blocks.