|Cases Marriage CounselingSexual incompatibility
A couple visited with complaint of sexual incompatibility. They had a good bond but had difference in libido. Husband saw nothing to discuss whereas wife was in a state of frustration. Sessions of counseling revealed how they differed in their concept and language of sexuality. Both were in a state of dissatisfaction. The issue was discussed. They started to understand each other’s expression and meaning of sexuality. There was mutual growth and both started to gain higher satisfaction. This improved their relationship to new high.
Pre Marital Counseling
Parents of two sides visited and brought boy and girl for pre marital counseling. Marriage date was coming near and the girl had started feeling uncomfortable about marriage. She postponed it first and then even thought of canceling it. Both joined counseling and shared their concerns and apprehensions. Most of these were based on assumed fears or others stories. They could easily overcome these. Girl had some genuine concerns. These issues were discussed with boy and they could figure out a way in between. Girl was satisfied and decided happily to proceed.
Fight over triffles & incompatibility
A couple visited 3 months after their marriage. They were sure that their marriage was a failure. They would fight over every little thing. They were ofopinion that they are totally incompatible and it would be useless to try any further. They attended sessions. They learned ‘how to create compatibility’. They were surprised to see that with slight openness they started to understand each other better. Soon they realized that they can gel with each other very well.
Alcoholism and physical violence
A 38 year old female visited and consulted about her marriage problems. Her main concern alcoholism and physical violence by her husband. She tried her best to convince him about how this is ruining their marriage but he did not change. She started with counseling sessions and few sessions later her husband joined. During the sessions husband revealed some past incidents which were causing him to go into alcohol. During further counseling husband could resolve his past negative memories. Both husband and wife decided to look towards a brighter future.
A couple visited to discuss problem of infidelity. Husband had met his college friends and this resulted in a relationship. This continued for about 6 months and then wife came to know about this. This led to major discord and wife decided to leave home. During discussion it came to surface that husband was having some psychological problems since he was a teen. He was given therapy for that and after few sessions of marital counseling they renewed their relationship.
A couple visited with complaints of frequent fights due to infidelity and alcohol problem. Husband was drinking daily and blamed wife of infidelity. Wife complained lack of care and time from husband. In few sessions of counseling both realized how they are playing a role in creation of discord and how they can easily eliminate this. They went happy and later called to tell how they feel a strong bond between them.